Discerning the will of God is a very tricky thing, partly because, you know, the little voice in my head can either be God's voice or it can be my own ego doing a magnificent impression of God's voice.
Only God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. The Church has always been changing.
God calls all of his children to the table. We can disagree and even say a lot of hateful things, but what we can't do in good conscience is leave the table. Or demand that someone else not be at the table.
But by virtue of our baptism, Peter Akinola and I are brothers in Christ and one day we are going to be in heaven together, so we might as well learn to get along here because we will have to get along there. God won't have it any other way.
It seems to me that if God calls us to anything it's to a life of integrity.
Historically speaking, institutions are slow to change and usually resistant to any sudden moves - churches especially so.
Left to our own devices and passions, we human beings have a hard time seeing beyond what is immediately in front of us.
