It's okay to be a fat man. It's prestige and power and all of that. But fat women are seen as just lazy and stupid and having no self-control.
While silence can in some circumstances bespeak noble self-control, it can also signify suppression, oblivion or cowardice.
We live in a culture built on debt, so we are encouraged to have no self control.
Since I've started fighting it has taught me a lot about self respect, self confidence and self control.
By constant self-discipline and self-control you can develop greatness of character.
A 'treat' is different from a 'reward,' which must be justified or earned. A treat is a small pleasure or indulgence that we give to ourselves just because we want it. Treats give us greater vitality, which boosts self-control, which helps us maintain our healthy habits.
A strong police presence keeps individuals involved in 'street life' from triggering the most severe penalties of the law by providing a surrogate for the self-control and parental oversight that they lack.
Tell him, on the contrary, that he needs, in the interest of his own happiness, to walk in the path of humility and self-control, and he will be indifferent, or even actively resentful.