My life's not about being gay - although one could argue I'm pretty professionally gay - but that's not how I experience life. Being gay is a profound part of who I am, but it isn't all of who I am.
I think effeminacy is something that's really important to talk about in the context of gay media representations and in terms of the gay experience at large.
There definitely has been this kind of Hollywood swing back from the pendulum of, 'OK, we're gonna do gay people; we're gonna do queens.' And then it's like, 'No, no, no queens. Queen is too much.'
There was one family drama on television when we took out 'The Fosters' - 'Parenthood'. Everybody thought it sounded like a great show, but nobody thought there was a home for it.
Nothing is ever off the table at 'The Fosters' as long as it's based in reality.
It's a very generational thing: I am not interested in labels. I am who I am. I will love who I love, and that's the way it is going to be.
