The only sense marriage makes is to share property, your children inherit the name and all that... it is all legal reasons to get married and no reason for love.
We will remember UPA 2, if at all, it seems, as that period when things went mysteriously wrong - for the bribe-taking, buck-passing, foot-dragging, and general sense of paralysis.
My sense of my own superiority over many of my classmates would have been much more muted if I knew that they had seen me failing miserably at woodwork or cross-stitch.
Life experiences inherently change you as a writer. My sense of fury calmed down when I had children and found a loving partner.
I have a general sense of mission, and I intuitively know when something is influencing that mission. I think this is what I'm supposed to be doing. Doors keep opening. In the end, it's the best use of my skills. I've finally consented to the idea that I'm an artist.
Self-respect is the fruit of discipline; the sense of dignity grows with the ability to say no to oneself.